why re-LIE to yourself!? (2012 edition)

why re-LIE to yourself!? (2012 edition).......now the title of my blog post is named thus as each and every year we -or more namely and honestly I- are subjected to peoples frivolous attempts in which they claim to "change what needs changing!" and even more ANNOYINGLY spout "20.. will be my year!"


come on now....lets stop kidding yourself... because if you think that the change of  'A' singular date in your life would then be the catalyst you needed to change or remove that thing you knew should have been removed from your life already you are even more foolhardy than you have ultimately failed to have grasped!!


not trying to shoot down peoples parade and all but when I hear or read people say things like "this is my year" etc. I just think plain and simply (two words).....SAVE IT!
i mean all the time people spend saying "I'm going to do this..." or "next year I start fresh by stopping this .." etc. the one re-occurring thought that travels through my head is 


WHY ARE YOU NOT DOING SOMETHING ABOUT IT RIGHT NOW!
and that's complimented by the thought
IF YOU PUT THE WHEELS IN MOTION NOW YOU WOULDN'T HAVE TO START THE YEAR 'DRY' AND THINGS WOULD PROBABLY RUN A LITTLE BIT 'SMOOTHER' FOR YOU COME THE TURN OF THE YEAR!


But then again there are a few of us that prey upon feigned ignorance and use that to put off doing the things that should be done. Some might read this and think who am I to question motives like such but if you look carefully its not the motive but rather the intent or even more so the 'will' behind to do so as having a weak will is what derails a lot of us in things that we 'plan' to do!


to keep this one short I think a lot of people should look upon themselves and think about this 'delaying behaviours/habits' that they have and assess how truly detrimental they are to their own growth and stability in life. I do feel that by focusing our energies on finding solutions here and now we would then move on to eliminating a great deal of hindrances and removing a few of the obstacles that we allow to creep up upon us by putting things off until the new year. I know this Blog post comes a little late especially as its now the last day of the year but if anything id like this Blog post to at the least get your minds thinking into what you have planned for next year but more importantly to act upon them NOW -if possible- rather than even tommorow as generally we can make these traditional resolutions but fail to start them so my thinking is if its already started then it will be easier to keep up come the new year.


I would however would like to close wishing all a happy new year and that you remain strong, focused and determined to out do all plans made for the up coming year,sending my blessings to all, chris :)